Second Book Report
In the book Rules by Cynthia Lord, twelve-year-old Catherine has a brother (David) with Autism. She loves him very much, but she is afraid of his embarrassing behaviors. She thinks David needs to learn discipline, so she makes him a list of rules (for example: “You can hug mom, but not the clerk at the video store,” or “Keep your pants on in public,” even “no toys in the fish tank”). One day, Kristi, the new neighbor moves in. Catherine has always wished for a friend, ever since her other best friend moved away to California. Catherine tries to hide David from Kristi, and tries to make sure David avoids Kristi. Catherine is embarrassed that David will embarrass her, as well as Kristi not becoming her friend. Soon Catherine and Kristi become good friends, without David finding out.
Since David has autism, he has to go to the doctors once (or twice) a week. As Catherine goes to the clinic with David, she meets Jason. Jason was in a wheelchair and was shy. He was quiet and he carried this thick book wherever he went. One day, in the clinic, Catherine sketched a picture of Jason when he wasn’t looking. She was almost done with the sketch, when Jason’s mother came up to her and started yelling about how Jason was disabled, and how she thought Catherine was not treating him with all due respect. Catherine was just stunned and speechless. She did not know that Jason could not talk, so he had to use his “communication book,” so she immediately stopped sketching her picture of Jason.
As days passed, everything went “normal”. At once, Jason told Catherine if she could give him her name in a small-sized index card. After she had made the card, Jason wanted more words. This is how they became friends-Catherine started making him expression words. One day, Jason asked Catherine something unexpected. He asked her how does it feel to be able to run? Catherine responded with a simple answer free, and it is like walking fast. Jason felt the urge to run, so he told Catherine to push his wheelchair fast. Jason felt happy that he could be able to run, and to have a good friend. Soon, it was Jason’s birthday and he was eager to invite Catherine. She also was happy that she was invited, but she was afraid to take David along with her. Catherine knew the perfect gift for Jason…a guitar. During Jason’s birthday party, Catherine was all well dressed and happy. Since Jason wanted her to bring along David, she did. When it was time to eat the cake, David did not use any food utensils, he ate with his fingers. This made Catherine so embarrassed that she thought Jason was not going to be her friend anymore. Conversely, Jason just accepted her for who she was, and he did not mind that her brother was “awkward.”
After the birthday party was over, everyone went home. The next day, Jason asked Catherine to go to a dance. She was stunned. All that was on her mind was what will Kristi think of me? She did not know what to say, so she asked Jason “…how…can…you…dance?” Jason felt bad and he left with no sound. Catherine stopped him, so he said, “I don’t dance, so I like to listen to the music.” Catherine understood, so she said yes. During the dance, Catherine saw Kristi, and she introduced Jason. Kristi was also shocked because she had imagined Jason’s appearance and characteristics to be different from how he really was in real life. Anyway, Catherine did not really dance, but Jason moved his wheelchair back and forth (to make the people around him think that he was kind of dancing). While “dancing”, Jason suspected that Catherine really did not want to dance with him because of his disability-he leaves. For another time, Catherine stopped Jason and she was wondering why he wanted to leave so early. As Jason started explaining, Catherine realized that she had been acting embarrassed, so she apologized to Jason. Without knowing, they both start dancing as well as becoming close friends.
The main characters throughout this story are:
Catherine is a twelve-year-old girl. She is very self-conscious towards herself, and others. She tries to hide her feelings towards her friends. David is Catherine’s eight-year-old brother. He is suffering from autism. He likes to watch this cartoon film called “Frog & Toad.” Jason is Catherine’s friend. He in a terrible condition of paraplegic. He visits Catherine every time she goes to the doctors with David. He likes to play the guitar, and he is very gentle. He can be a little sensitive about what others say about him sometimes.
There were many themes throughout the story, but I believe that the important message the author was trying to give is “accept people of who they are.” In this story, Catherine is always trying to make sure David avoids people. She is always scared and embarrassed of his behavior. I personally think that Catherine is somewhat selfish. I mean, if I had a brother who is suffering autism, I would try to help him. Although sometimes he might humiliate me, I would still try to teach him the right things from the wrong. Catherine still teaches David, but she just makes up a bunch of rules so he catch up. For a fact, I know that children/adults who have autism have a hard time to talk or express themselves with other people, they cannot make connections with people easily, and they have trouble linking words to their meanings…etc... On the other hand, once Catherine meets Jason, she slowly starts to realize that she is “normal”, and sometimes people have to deal with things that they do not like.
This theme does relate to me in a way. Before I read this book, and read about autism, (in elementary school), I used to be “mean”—and I state again, I used to be “a big meanie.” I did not really know that if you make fun of someone, it could hurt him or her deep down--right in the middle of the heart.L Anyway, I thought disabled kids were “weird.” I did not know that they had a hard time doing things. Later on, I tried to put my position in theirs, and feel how people call you not “normal.” As soon as I started “growing up,” I understood that sometimes there isn’t a real treatment (in terms of medicine) for the disability, so the actual cure is care, love, and to be friends. Now, in middle school, I REALLY regret what I had said in the past.
I really enjoyed this award-winning, heart-warming, and ingenious work of fiction. I think this story is realistic in a few ways. First, to have a brother with autism is real-life. Second, trying to make new friends is difficult. Along with third, people can judge others by their disability, looks, or behaviors. I give this book as a “two-thumbs” up because it really dealt with reality, and it was a very meaningful story. I thought the event when Catherine made up certain words for Jason that similarly expressed her daily life was a bit funny. I do recommend this book to any young readers.